Expert attributes socio-economic factors to domestic violence
Expert attributes socio-economic factors to domestic violence
By Talatu Maiwada
Violence
Abuja, June 20, 2018 (NAN) Ms Prisca Obika, Programme Officer Legal, Women Right Advancement and Protection Alternative (WRAPA), has attributed socio-economic factors to the new trend of domestic violence in the country.
Obika disclosed on Wednesday while fielding questions at a News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) forum in Abuja.
She said that in the past, women experienced more violence at home, but that new trend has revealed that men were becoming victims of abuse and murder from their spouses and partners.
“The socio-economic stress is one of the key factors affecting women in the society today as most women are tired and exhausted in handling responsibilities at home.
“The world has changed, the roles are reversing in some homes, the men are not keeping up with their responsibilities and the women have to provide for the home and also care for the children.
“Keeping up with such roles consistently, builds up accumulated pressure and stress in women and eventually the temptation to vent out anger on the partner, if not appreciated,’’ she said.
She however said that couple had no right to violate one another to resolve conflicts, adding there are several ways conflict can be resolved in the home.
Obika said that both partners must leave together and agree that there are challenges that need to be addressed among them which could only begin from the place of communication.
“Communication means when couple sit down to talk about serious issues affecting the home such as financial problems, sexual challenges, emotional pressures, children and management of the home front.
“Being able to discuss issues between partners reduces a lot of tension and stress with better understanding between them and other members of the family.
“Third parties could be involved in offering counselling when partners are not able to resolve their problems amicably such as family members, social workers, women groups and NGOs,’’ she said.
Obika advised women to get involved in women groups and focal group discussions where they can speak with other women in confident about your challenges, listen to women share their experiences and find solutions.
She said both partners had key roles to play in resolving conflicts through communication and understanding, getting psychological and medical advice.
Obika further called on men to always love and appreciate their spouses while supporting them at home to reduce any kind of accumulated tension that could result to violence. (NAN)
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Edited by Julius Enehi/Muhammad Suleiman Tola

