Family Day: Psychologist harps on functional families to curb anti-social behaviours
Family Day: Psychologist harps on functional families to curb anti-social behaviours
By Olasunkanmi Onifade
Family
Abuja, May 15, 2019 (NAN) Mr Adedotun Ajiboye, Principal Clinical Psychologist with Ekiti State University Teaching Hospital, Ado Ekiti, says good and functional families contribute to the emotional health and well-being of its members.
Ajiboye made this known to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Abuja in an interview to commemorate the International Day of Families.
He said that families with good relationship qualities served as protection against negative vices and illnesses like depression, anxiety disorder, suicide, and drug and alcohol addiction.
He also said other anti-social behaviours include suicide, drug or alcohol addiction, sexual immorality and truancy.
“Family is not just about blood relation. Family consists of people who support and love you, and the people you can confide in and trust.
“For example, family may include classmates, alumni, co-workers, professional colleagues, church members and so on.
“Vices such as sexual immorality and truancy are usually as a result of a dysfunctional family,’’ the psychologist said.
Ajiboye said that family helps to give utmost protection and security, give basic value for life, shape a child’s future as well as help build an ideal society.
He, however, said that due to globalisation and some other factors, the purposes of family are no more entrenched in our society.
“Some of the challenges families do face includes divorce, parenting issues, illnesses or disability of a family member, death of a family member, drug, alcohol and gambling addiction.
“Others include children anti-social behaviours such as truancy, promiscuity, theft and bad gangs,’’ the psychologist said.
He advised that families should not allow rift among its members, adding that one should not bottle up emotions rather to ventilate their feelings.
“Recognise every member of the family as important. Don’t look down on people in the group.
“Schedule a time to talk as a family to resolve the challenges, decide on solutions together, show empathy not just sympathy and seek professional advice where necessary,” Ajiboye said.
He said dysfunctional families could be prevented in the society, if all played their roles well and on time.
NAN reports that the observance of the International Day of Families was proclaimed by the UN General Assembly, and is celebrated May 15 every year.
The day highlights the importance of families as basic units of society and reflects the importance that the international community attaches to families. (NAN)
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Editing by Oluyinka Fadare/Muhammad Suleiman Tola

